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About Us

Passion. Dedication. Experience.


The idea of the Sex Down South Conference was brought into this world by Marla Renee Stewart and Tia Marie Mosley.  After working together on several sexuality-related projects in the past, they decided that they wanted to reach a bigger audience and produce something better than they have ever done in the past.  Sex Down South has become that.  This conference is full of love, excitement, and endless possibilities.  With a call out to possible crew members all around the nation, we now have a solid team that helps to produce the event every year.  Their dedication, passion, and experience working in this field is the glue that holds this conference together each and every event that we hold.  

Without a budget, Tia and Marla manifested this conference into the making in 2015.  Our first annual conference was held at the Sheraton Atlanta Airport hotel and we had just under 250 people in attendance.  In 2016, we grew exponentially.  With over 350 people in attendance, we had an amazing convening at the Hilton Atlanta, located in the heart of downtown Atlanta.  Unfortunately, with bigger conferences taking over our space, we were forced to do a smaller event.  We presented the SEXxATL talks and Mini-Bang party, which had dynamic speakers from all walks of life and wonderful and kinky demonstrations.  2018 is going to be epic, as we will again be located at the Hilton Atlanta.  


Want to help us?

We are always looking to expand our reach and work with folks who are committed to doing this work.  We meet monthly and this work takes dedication and time.  If you have the time, focus, commitment, and passion for the work, we would love to have you.  We don't do mediocre, so you will find out swiftly if you are a good fit for our team.  

Get in touch with us ▸sexdownsouthatl@gmail.com


The Crew

 Photo Credit: Roan Coughtry

Photo Credit: Roan Coughtry


Marla Renee Stewart, MA

Marla, a Californian native, is a woman with passion, charisma and integrity.  Motivated by passion, her mission in life is to educate and inspire others in a variety of ways.  First and foremost, she is truly dedicated to getting people in touch with their body, mind and spirit.  She believes in harnessing love and accepting people for who they are and where they are at in their lives.  Her non-judgmental spirit speaks to people from all different backgrounds and she has the ability to get along with just about anyone. She is a maven in most everything that she pursues and she strives for perfection in everything she does.  Mediocre is not in her vocabulary.  She has a wonderful and supportive family, as well as amazing and compassionate friends.  When she has some free time, she likes to watch movies, have provocative conversations with her friends and play basketball.  She also loves to dance and convince her house guests to play strategy games with her. If you want to know more about her, you can email her at marla@sexdownsouth.com.



MA, Sociology-Gender & Sexuality, 2013

BA, Psychology-Social Psychology, 2004  Minor in LGBT Studies

Activities & Affiliations

Social Media | @velvetlipsatl                                                       | @1marlastewart


 Tia getting kisses from Jerome & Mombe Banga at a Sex Down South fundraiser.

Tia getting kisses from Jerome & Mombe Banga at a Sex Down South fundraiser.


Tia Marie

Tia Marie is a co-founder of the Sex Down South Conference.  She hails from Houston, TX and has been in Atlanta for over 15 years.  She's a creature of creativity: tv producer, stage-manager, voyeur, event planner, writer, lover and juicer of strange veggies. She’s been navigating through the cross sections of eroticism, sensuality and social limits for over 10 years. While she holds a B.A in Mass Communications, she learned mostly from her peers and through practical play in elevators, swingers clubs, sensuality workshops/events and training. She’s equally soft and attentive and plans to take on Atlanta’s erotic scene and share her escapades. Her quenchless desires include sex, food and the supernatural. If you want to know more about her, you can email her at tia@sexdownsouth.com..



BA, Mass Communications

Activities & Affiliations

  • TBA

Social Media | IG: @blackbettiee



master healer

Roan Coughtry, MSW

Roan Coughtry, MSW, is a writer, facilitator and healing artist based out of Atlanta, GA. With a background in integrative energy work, social justice organizing and social work (Smith College, 2011), they’re passionate about kindling the connection between healing, embodied practice and liberation. For 7 years they’ve served as a gender and sexuality consultant for the UN, where they write and research on violence prevention. They're a co-founder of the national Sexual Liberation Collective and a Pleasure Professional on the innovative platform O.school, where they provide weekly livestreams on comprehensive sex education. In addition to co-producing Sex Down South, they’ve helped organize conferences such as Facing Race and Money for our Movements. They facilitate conversations around the country on gender, race, sexuality, spirituality and violence prevention, and they also provide coaching and healing sessions for clients. You can find out more about their work at roancoughtry.com.



Masters, Social Work, 2011


Activities & Affiliations

Social Media | @roancoughtry


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Big bang coordinator

Andre Shakti

Andre Shakti is a journalist, educator, performer, activist, and professional slut living in the San Francisco Bay Area. She is devoted to normalizing alternative desires, de-stigmatizing sex workers and their clients, and not taking herself too seriously. Andre wrestles mediocre white men into submission and writes about sex work, queerness and non-monogamy for Cosmopolitan, Rewire, Thrillist, MEL, Vice, Autostraddle, and more. She can frequently be found marathoning "Law & Order: SVU" under a chaotic pile of partners and pitbulls, and yes, she knows how problematic that show is. Andre is the reigning "polyamory pundit" at her non-monogamy advice column, "I Am Poly(amorous) & So Can You!", which you can visit - and submit questions to! - via IAmPoly.net. She frequently lectures and advises on issues surrounding sexual health, politics and pleasure, gender diversity, sex worker rights, non-monogamy, and queerness. She is thrilled to be a part of the Sex Down South committee, and will be coordinating The Big Bang event as well as facilitating workshops and promoting a large, diverse sex worker representation at the conference. Visit her on Twitter @andreshakti, on FB as "Andre Shakti", and as a pleasure professional on the exceptional #SexEd platform O.School.


Activities & Affiliations

Social Media | Twitter: @andreshakti                                       | FB: @andre.shakti


BS, Psychology & LGBT Studies, 2010

Studied at San Francisco State University’s National Sexuality Resource Center (NSRC) in Summer 2010

Graduated from San Francisco Sex Information (SFSI)’s Sex Educator Training in Fall 2013




assistance expert

Shayla Tumbling

Shayla’s goal is to help people love who they are and to create a positive, accepting, supportive atmosphere in which people can authentically BE without any pressure. Her mission includes educating people in understanding ancestral, generational, & cultural trauma; the impact it has on our daily functioning and supporting them in developing solutions and healing past traumas in order to have a healthier quality of life. As a Sexuality & Emotional Empowerment Educator, Coach, & Healing Facilitator Shayla supports her clients in developing a healthy balanced relationship with themselves and with others by understanding how sexuality is integral to their humanity and relationships to their individual selves. Her coaching & educational style are integrative, holistic, and sex-positive. Her core work centers around supporting and teaching Black Women their true connection with their personal power through healing Ancestral & Cultural Trauma and it's impact on their sexuality, emotional health, and self-image. She has designed a 5 Week Online Program to aid women & men towards the improvement of their relationship with self & sexuality. Utilizing her skills & passion as an Educator|Coach|Healing Facilitator she creates sacred spaces for her clients to cultivate their emotional health & self-improvement. 



MS, Mental Health Counseling, 2008

BA, Psychology & English, 2005

Activities & Affiliations

  • A Southern Touch LLC, Co-Owner|Professional Platonic Cuddler
  • O.School, Pleasure Professional
  • MeaningfulWorld, Humanitarian Ambassador
  • The Association of Black Sexologists & Clinicians (ABSC), Member
  • Women of Color Sexual Health Network (WOCSHN), Member
  • Therapy for Black Girls Directory, Counselor
  • The Moon Woman, Certified Red Tent Facilitator 
  • The 8th House Collective, Retreat & Event Coordinator|Workshop Facilitator|Coach


Social Media | IG: @shayladtumbling | Twitter: BlkSexCatalyst | FB: Shayla D. Tumbling



Volunteer coordinator

Estee Dillard

If you would like to volunteer, please contact Estee at volunteer@sexdownsouth.com.